Nicola Johnson

Certified Executive Coach

Posted on June 18, 2025

See Yourself Clearly, So You Can Be Yourself Fully

The purpose of this reflection is simple, but powerful: to see yourself clearly so you can show up as your most authentic self. When you understand who you are, you begin to realize that much of what happens in your life and career is a reflection of that. With that realization comes something even more important, the awareness that you hold far more power than you’ve been led to believe.

When Career Aspirations Hit a Wall

You want to grow. You’re aiming for that next promotion or opportunity, but it feels like the support isn’t there. Maybe your leader doesn’t seem to notice your potential. You know you have so much more to offer – so you push. You ask. You push again. And the feedback or suggestions you receive are all things you’ve already done.

It’s frustrating. It’s exhausting. Here’s the turning point: this is when you shift gears: not by giving up, but by tuning in.

Recognize what the business needs, and keep doing the work with excellence. Also, make sure your contributions are seen. Many critical roles in organizations – Finance and Accounting, Data Management, IT Support to name a few – aren’t always front and centre. Yet, like the crew behind a blockbuster movie, none of it works without you. No spotlight, no red carpet moment, without the people behind the scenes making it all run.

Own Your Value

So, to those of you in the “back office,” don’t just do the work—bring awareness to the value you’re creating. Speak up. Advocate for the impact you’re making. Remind them how lucky they are to have someone like you steering the ship from behind the curtain.

And – just in case you need a little nudge – remember to dial up your friendliness. It costs nothing and builds everything. Make the effort to see and connect with the people you support. Strive to like and be liked. You’re not just delivering services, you’re building relationships.

Final Thought

Be the best version of you. Be real. Get real. Because once you start truly seeing yourself, others will too – and that changes everything.

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Nicola Johnson
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